Can we sign something that says we are the legal parents?
If you are not married but you both agree who the father is, the two of you can sign a form called a Voluntary Acknowledgment of Parentage. This form gives legal rights and responsibilities to the biological father. It also gives rights to your child.
If parents do not sign this form, only the mother has custody of your child. And your child does not have a legal father. Read more about Paternity.
Do not sign this form if either of you is not sure who the father is. If either of you is not sure who the father is, get paternity testing. Wait for the results before you sign the form.
Where do we get the Voluntary Acknowledgment of Parentage form?
You can get the Voluntary Acknowledgment of Parentage form at:
- the hospital where your child was born. You must ask for the form before the hospital registers your child’s birth certificate;
- the State Registry of Vital Records and Statistics;
- the clerk's office for the city or town where your child was born;
- a Probate and Family Court or
- Download it.
How do we fill out this form?
Make sure you read and understand the entire form. Do not sign the form if you do not understand something. If you have any questions about what it means to sign this form, talk to an attorney first.
There are two sections for parents to fill out.
If you are the mother, fill out the mother's section. If you are the father, fill out the father's section.
You must sign this form in front of a Notary Public. Ask the hospital if they have a notary. You can also find notaries at banks and post offices.
Check the first box if:
- you were not married to anyone when your child was born or at any time during the 300 days before your child was born.
Check the second box if:
- you were married to someone other than your child's father when your child was born, or when you became pregnant.
If you check the second box, you must also file an Affidavit of Nonpaternity. This form says your husband is not actually your child’s father. Your husband or your ex-husband must sign the form.
If he will not sign the form, you can go to court. You can file a Complaint to Establish Paternity. The court can decide that your husband or ex-husband is not actually your child's father.
The father's name will not go on your child’s birth certificate until your husband or ex-husband signs an Affidavit of Nonpaternity or the court decides who your child’s legal father is.
Fill in the father’s personal information.
You have 60 days from when you sign the Voluntary Acknowledgment of Parentage to change it.
In those 60 days, you can ask the court to cancel the Acknowledgment of Paternity. File a Complaint to Rescind Paternity Acknowledgment Pursuant to Chapter 209C, Section 11 in the Probate and Family Court. “Rescind” means to cancel. See a sample complaint you can use.
After 60 days who the legal father is becomes a court judgment and is very hard to cancel.
There are only a few situations where you can try to cancel the Voluntary Acknowledgment of Parentage after the 60 days.
You can ask the court to cancel the establishment of paternity only within one year from when you signed the form. And only if you can prove that the other parent did something wrong to get you to sign the form, like:
- the mother lied and said you are the father; this is “fraud.”
- the other parent forced you to sign the form; this is “duress” or illegal pressure.
- a paternity test proves that the man on the Voluntary Acknowledgment of Parentage cannot be the child’s biological father, or the mother was sure no one else could be the father but she was wrong; these are “material mistakes of fact.”
If you need the court to cancel the Acknowledgment after the 60 days, talk to a lawyer.
What happens if more than a year has passed after we signed the Voluntary Acknowledgement of Parentage?
The court judgment about who the legal father is, “establishing paternity,” is final.
For more information about voluntary acknowledgement of parentage, see Massachusetts General Laws, Chapter 209C, section 11.