Should I go to court?
Every case is different. There are a lot of things to think about before you decide to go to court.
You should gather information, get legal advice, and talk it over with people you trust. Only you know what is best for you.
When you go to court is not always up to you. Your spouse can file for divorce or separate support, too.
If you have children, your relationship with your spouse does not end when you separate or divorce. You will probably have to keep talking to your spouse about support, parenting time or visitation, and other parenting questions. You will not have to keep talking to him if you have a 209A protective order that says “no contact.”
Going through separation or getting a divorce can be very hard emotionally. Counseling can help you through the process. Your doctor can refer you to a counselor or therapist, or you can ask at your local health center or look in the Yellow Pages.
Counseling can help couples figure out how to deal with divorce or separation.
Most domestic violence advocates say it is a bad idea to go to counseling with the person who abused you if you are trying to separate from that person.