Examples include:

• It may be hard to find where the order says child support ends because child support can be part of a bigger decision. For example, a judge can order child support as part of another case like divorce. Somewhere in the judgment, there may be a decision about child support.
• The order may not say when child support ends.
• The order may say something that one parent thinks means one thing and the other parent disagrees. For example, the order may say something like “child support will continue until your youngest child is emancipated.” You could think your child is no longer financially dependent, but the other parent could think they still are financially dependent.
• The parents disagree about where the child lives most of the time.

If both parents do not agree the order has ended, then going to court to get a judge to decide may be the best thing to do.

File a Complaint for Modification. In the Complaint for Modification, you ask the court to change the order so that it clearly says that the child support order has ended, or it says when the child support order should end. 

You will need to tell the court why the order should end. What is different now? What has changed so that the order should end?

Some common reasons for ending a child support order are:

• Your child stops living with the parent who gets child support,
• Your child starts living with the parent who pays child support, 
• Parents get back together, or
• Your child is no longer financially dependent on either parent.

In each of these examples, there has been a change from when the court first made the order. 

Are you ready to ask the court to end a child support order? Learn more at How to change (modify) or end a child support order in court

If you get back together with the other parent and neither of you goes to court to change the child support order, nothing will happen. Child Support Enforcement will still collect payments. The payor’s employer will still take child support out of the paycheck. But you can ask the court to end the child support order. Before you ask the court to end the order, make sure you both agree that:

1. You are back together, and
2.  The child support order should end.

If both of you do not agree that you are back together again, the court can decide. 

Often when parents say they are “back together” they mean that they are living together again. You may decide you do not need a child support order anymore. The court uses the word “reconciled” to mean that parents are back together.

But, sometimes parents get “back together” but do not live together. Think carefully about ending a child support order if you do not live together.

The court can agree to end the child support order. The court can also decide not to end the child support order.

When the court ends a child support order, the new order ending the child support goes back to the date the complaint for modification was “served”. The “served” date is the date that the other parent gets the complaint.

If you and the other parent filed a Joint Petition for Modification of a Child Support Judgment, the new order ending the child support goes back to the date you filed the petition.

Child support does not end on the date you reconciled. The Department of Revenue Child Support Enforcement will still collect any payments that were due up to the date of serving the complaint or filing the petition.

For example

You are the parent that pays child support. You get back together with the other parent on July 12.  
You file a Complaint for Modification on August 20. The other parent gets the Summons and Complaint on August 24. 
The court ends your child support order on September 18. 
You stop paying child support August 24, not on July 12.