What if the person who abused me files a restraining order or criminal case against me?
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Sometimes abusive people try to use the police and the courts against the people they abuse. They might try to get a restraining order or press criminal charges against the people they abuse. They might do these things to make it seem like they are the victim. Or they might do this to get back at you for reporting how they have abused you. This article talks about what to do if the person abusing you gets a restraining order or tries to press criminal charges against you.
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Who to call for help with domestic violence
DV - Who to call for help
Call 911 if you are in danger right now.
If you are not in immediate danger, you can contact:
- SafeLink Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-877-785-2020 (24/7, in many languages)
- National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233), text "START" to 88788 or chat online
See Jane Doe's list of Massachusetts domestic violence programs and court resources for safety and support.
Get help applying for a 209A
DV Help applying for 209A
- Ask the court clerk - many courthouses have advocates who can help you with the paperwork and come to a hearing.
- Court service centers can help with the paperwork.
- Use a guided interview on Court Forms Online.
- Find a lawyer.